Tegan Love

There are certain people in your life, not necessarily close to you, that have huge affects on you. One of those people in my life happens to be a little boy who is very sick with Sickle Cell. I've met him only twice, known his mother for years... and every few weeks or so his name, Tegan, comes to my mind and I pray for him. He sticks to my heart over the next few days and then my thoughts drift to the chaos in front of me.
Tegan is a 2 year old future superstar... or teacher... or President... or he could be the Dr. that discovers the cure for cancer. Only God knows...
Fact is Tegan is struggling to survive, daily. He's happy and often smiles through the pain-- probably because his mother is a warrior; he sees and feels her stregnth. She's a really young single mother with limited resources trying to keep her baby boy alive--- but if you ask her she's just a normal girl who loves music and adores her son. They take pictures constantly and sing all night long. She smiles through the pain and sings though the tears. She's focused, determined, and admirable, and REFUSES to take handouts. From day one she's been right by Tegan's side and hasn't missed a beat.
She's a champ compared to me on many levels and I'm positive God will bless her with the best for her and Teg.
I've come to realize---- God put Teg in his mother's hands because He knew his mother was perfect for him. She and God have guided Teg through legnthly hospital stays, repeat visits to the ER, IV after IV, medication after medication, sickness after sickness, and through it all I'm sure they have become a stronger unit.
It's no pity party, it's loving your neighbor, understanding their struggle, and walking in their shoes for a day or so... there are several ways you can help both Teg and Mom......

• Pray for Laci--- pray that God blesses her abundantly and He guides her down the path He's laid for her. Pray that Laci accepts His will and trusts that He will never, NEVER, let her down. May seem so in some moments, but overall He has her back. Pray that Laci keeps growing as a person, as a mother, and as a young lady, that she enjoys her life and prides herself on being a phenomenal mother.
• Tegan Needs Us: Pray that Tegan is strong enough to pull through ANY sickness and that he sees the face of God when he can't feel any worst. Pray that Tegan's family steps up to the plate and help his mother, I mean really help her, because she is doing the best she can with what she's been given. I pray that Tegan finds and donor and raises money for the procedure he needs, we can all make this happen. Lord, help us make this happen! The world needs Teg.... he has so much to offer!

All in all--- as I said I've met Tegan twice... but do you see why he and his mother touch my heart and will continue to do so?

 

Prayers go up to Teg and his family----have faith- you WILL find a match! You have alot of people who truly care about you and pray for you on a daily basis.

Please everyone-------
In the mean time please go to http://giveforward.com/teganlove -- it's a great way to start!
Read his story , it will touch your life.

Donate:  what's 20.00? Junk food you buy at the gas station durung the week.
what's 30.00? skip your daily soft drink and give the money to Teg's fund.
What's 10.00? Bring lunch from home one day rather than eating fast food.

Ready- Set- Donate

Sincerely,
Rachelle Williams

One & Only

If you are a certain age or hold a certain title in life you'll understand this blog without thinking twice about it... If not, read it again in a few years and you will. People take on certain roles in our lives, friend-mother-sibling-ect... These very roles tell u alot abt who we are inside... And believe it or not tend to shape how we see the world around us.
I enjoy roles, I love wing a friend and daughter, and above all a mother. I must admit though, I've allowed roles of ppl around me to shape too many days in the past. I've been hurt by loss which made me scared to love, misguided by ppl's inability to be trusted, and tested by ppl I truly thought would Always love me... And I've learned one thing--- my love is defined by me and me only. No one can hurt me bad enough to deter the way I love the person who deserves me, no one can damage the relations I have with ppl who worm for my trust, and no one can say they had anything to do with stopping me from reaching my destiny... Which is to obtain and maintain a family that has been thru it all and still has meals on Sundays! Me Shuga & her father- I'm determined.
I can't stress it enough, the tests of life, the walk, the jog, the fast pace, then the cool down... The moment where you ponder on your actions and wonder what would have/ could have been different if you would have said this/ done that... What if? There is no ro for what if, and if there is you aren't thinking hard enough, loving hard enough... Bc if you are those moments don't get away that easy. You appreciate them enough to recognize them and STOP before losing it. Blessed; I was so blessed... But to know a love and lose a love makes you NEED that love... So to know there was only one like it--- heartbreaking. I wanna be that love to my family, my friends, above all my daughter... That's my role- what's yours? Be your kids one and only, be the one and only... Love hard, try hard, work hard, bc life is hard... And I've known alot of ppl, alot of faces, been alot of places... But we all have something in common... The ability to be someone's ONE AND ONLY.
Ppl who know me know I don't smile for much, not much exited me, and I'm pretty uptight... I'm a "work in progress"... But nothing could ever express how being a wife and mother make me feel on a daily basis. My smile isn't wide enough, my laugh isn't loud enough, and I am not proud enough... Of the two ppl who see me and their one and only... I'm very blessed to play that role--- &&& I pray I do it well all the days of my life.

<3 Rachelle